I've dated my fair share of guys... I'm not saying I was in a serious relationship with all of them, but we went on dates, "talked" whatever you want to call it!
Ending something with someone you care about is always difficult. But the fact is, if y'all are not meant to be together, IT WILL NOT LAST! No matter how much you try, beg, plead... nope! Not gonna happen! Don't try to force something that isn't meant to be because you may be missing out on meeting your future spouse (yes they are out there somewhere). So, what do you do after the relationship is over? Well you higher your standards sweetie!!
So often people stay in relationships because they don't think they can do any better, but UM YESS YA CAN!! If you want an awesome man, you have to be an awesome woman! If you want men to respect you, you must first respect yourself.
What I've noticed (after reviewing the last few guys who I have cared for) they just keep getting more and more AWESOME! Not even kidding! So, now I sit here thinking... if all of these guys that I date are getting more amazing, can you imagine what my future husband will be like?! Holy cow! Woot wooooot!
FYI: If he doesn't have the qualities you are looking for, kick him to the curb darlin'! No use wasting your time!
After my last relationship I made a list. A "Qualities Future Husband MUST Have" list and if I meet someone with a quality that I admire and it's not on my list, I add it!! I'm 23 years old and I'm not gonna date someone just for the heck of it! And let me tell ya I am planning to stick by that list because I never want to settle, especially when it comes to marriage!! If you're someone who seems to settle in relationships, I would advice you to make a list of things you want in a future spouse, and always refer back to it when you meet someone new. :)
Be Sassy. Be Sweet. Be You.
Classy, sassy, but oh so sweet!