Very often I see girls getting caught up in the idea that they need to behave, dress, or talk a certain way to get a guys attention. Stop trying to find a boyfriend. Stop trying to act a certain way because you think that's what guys like. They do not necessarily prefer blondes over red-heads, or girls who go to the tanning bed over girls that don't. Stop trying to buy clothes you think guys will prefer, because in the end, all you will be hurting is yourself.
Great things often happen when you least expect them, so instead of focusing on getting a boyfriend, focus on things that make you happy. Things that make YOU unique! Focus on your education!!! Guys will hurt you, confuse you, annoy you, woo you, and just overall drive you crazy, but if you put as much focus in your education as you do them, you can be extremely successful! Guys will come and go in your life, but your education will be with you forever. Maybe while you are engaging in the things that you love, you will come across someone who loves those things too!
And let me tell ya something, dressing slutty will only get you attention from pigs! No real man likes their woman all hangin' out! If you want a gentleman, you have to dress and act like a lady. The primary reason for dating is to find your future spouse, and the qualities you want in a future spouse. So, you're gonna want someone who treats you with respect! Not someone who looks at you like a piece of meat!
Yes, it is a lot easier to dress a little seductive to get a guys attention. More chances than none you will get someones attention, but it won't be the attention you truly desire. It will be the attention that lasts for a night, and will leave you feeling empty, only to find yourself trying it again the next weekend. Being independent, focusing on school, respecting yourself, dressing and acting like a lady may not gain you the attention of every man you pass, but one day, when it matters, you will catch the one man's attention that makes no other guys attention worth it. I understand that we all want to give, feel and be loved, but that one night's attention won't make you feel anymore love than you did before. It may be easy to catch a man's eye, but the one challenge is to be the one who catches his heart and to do that will not be easy. So focus on improving yourself and the right man will come into your life when the time is right!
Be Sassy. Be Sweet. Be YOU!
Classy, sassy, but oh so sweet!